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Parent Spot for Parents of Middle School Students
One of the biggest challenges students will face during
their middle school years will come from an unexpected source. It
isn’t making the basketball team or having to memorize a long list
of mathematical formulas. According to counselors and teachers,
it’s learning how to manage their time and stay organized.
For the first time, students are faced with having multiple
teahcers, each with their own set of assignments and expectations.
Juggling these new academic relationships (not to mention their
extracurricular activities and social lives) can be overwhelming
for some kids. Helping children learn to keep track of their
commitments will save them a lot frustration and will put them on
the road to success in school – and life!
On your mark...get set... get organized!
Here are some practical ideas for parents on how to help kids
learn to organize their time and their school work:
Make sure they have an assignment notebook. Talk with your
children about how to use it and why. Suggest they open it at
the beginning of each class and leave it on their desk until
they have written down their assignments. Encourage them to
review it before leaving school to be sure they bring home the
books and other materials they will need.
Have them use a three-ring binder to organize their papers.
Children should use one, two or as many binders as they need
with individual sections for each subject. With everything
stored in notebooks, students will more likely have their notes
with them once they get home.
Have them create a homework folder within their binders
where they can put all their handouts, assignments, and school
correspondence they receive during the day.
Encourage them to set aside time to get organized. Teach
them to empty their backpacks and homework folders after school
and place items where they belong. (This will help prevent the
dreaded "backpack-as-a-giant-black-hole--syndrome," where
important papers get lost more quickly than ships in the Bermuda
Triangle). Once papers have been sorted by subject, children can
file them in the appropriate section of the binder. Papers that
require a parent’s attention can be placed in your "in-basket."
Parents can help their children get into the habit of making
this a regular practice by sitting with them as they weed
through their papers, especially in the beginning of the school
year.
Create a homework supply box. An inexpensive storage
container with a lid is great for keeping homework supplies
together. Make your kids responsible for letting you know when
supplies are running low. A homework kit might include a
dictionary, paper (looseleaf, unlined, graph), sticky notes,
index cards, black and blue pens, pencils, erasers,
highlighters, white-out, ruler, calculator, stapler, scissors,
glue stick, and a three-hole punch.
Help your children decide on a regular location to do
homework. Some kids need a very structured and quiet space.
Others do fine with a little background noise or in the company
of a friend or sibling. By settling on an acceptable location in
advance, you’ll minimize daily fights over who sits where and
whether or not it’s okay to have the television on "just this
time."
Set up a daily homework schedule. Some students want to get
through their assignments as soon as they get home; others need
a little time to rest and unwind. Regardless, encourage them to
set aside a specific block of time each day to complete homework
– and then stick to it! This daily routine will teach them how
to plan for homework and fit in other activities.
Consider a weekly family planning meeting. With kids
involved in so many activities these days, trying to synchronize
every family member’s commitments is enough to give an air
traffic controller a headache. A family planning meeting on a
Sunday afternoon or evening might help everyone "regroup" and
get organized for the coming week. Have everyone come together
and take turns plotting out their plans on a master calendar. To
ensure that this important planning meeting consistently takes
place, wrap it around a pizza party or other special family
meal.
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