Parent Spot for Parents of Middle School Students
Tests are a big part of school life, more so today than ever
before with the emphasis on meeting higher standards. Today’s
tests not only tell students how well they are doing and where
they need to improve, they also allow teachers to identify where
the curriculum needs to be fine tuned.
So if tests are so helpful, why do they cause some children so
much anguish?
Any test that requires students to show their best work is
likely to produce some jitters. However, when those jitters
produce extreme preoccupation with failure, sleeplessness,
trembling hands, stomach pains or feeling faint, your child is
likely experiencing "test anxiety."
According to the U.S. Department of Education, students who
suffer from test anxiety tend to worry about success in school and
may be extremely self-critical. Instead of feeling challenged by
the prospect of success, they become afraid of failure. This makes
them anxious about tests and their own abilities. Simply
encouraging them to stop worrying usually doesn’t help ease their
concerns. If you find your child tends to experience anxiety prior
to tests, here are some things you might try:
- Encourage your child to study over a period of time rather
than "cram" the night before an exam. This becomes particularly
important with end-of-the-year tests, many of which are
reflective of the content that has been taught throughout the
year. Test preparation should be more like a review than a
stressful attempt to learn a year’s worth of curriculum in one
night.
- Try to keep your talk about tests casual (while driving in
the car or preparing dinner, ask how your child feels about an
upcoming test). Children are more likely to open up about fears
or anxiety in less confrontational situations rather than when
face-to-face.
- Meet with teachers or a guidance counselor to discuss your
child’s progress. They can suggest activities to do at home to
help prepare for tests and improve your child’s understanding of
schoolwork.
- Stay well informed about your child’s tests.
- Know how different test results are used and how they will
affect your child’s placement in school. Many content area tests
and projects count for a percentage of the year’s grade and can
determine whether a student passes or fails a subject area.
Others, like the eighth grade state tests, are designed to show
how well students have learned information in different content
areas throughout the middle school years. Students who score
below a certain level will not be retained because of their
grade. Scores from these tests are used by teachers to determine
whether students will need remedial help to prepare for the more
challenging content in high school.
- Don’t dismiss the test as unimportant. At the same time, let
your child know that it’s his or her effort and not the final
score that really counts.
Before the test, make sure your child:
Gets a good night’s sleep.
Eats a wholesome breakfast.
Dresses comfortably.
Is on time to school.
Has all necessary materials (pen, pencil, calculator, etc.).
Avoids stressful situations (such as arguments) prior to
testing.
During the test, encourage your child to:
Ask questions of the person administering the test if unsure
what is being asked.
Answer questions completely and in detail.
Check to be sure no questions have been skipped.
Proofread answers.
Avoid becoming distracted by other test takers.
Silently repeat calming phrases such as "This is only a
test," "I don’t have to be perfect," or "I can be nervous later,
but now I have to concentrate on the test."
Take a few deep breaths, get up to get a drink or to sharpen
a pencil, shift seating position or stand to stretch.
Don’t worry about who finishes first or last.
Go back and proof answers again if finished early, but don’t
change anything unless sure of the change. Studies show the
first answer is usually the right one.
Suggested reading for parents and students
Ready, Set, Relax: A Research-Based Program of Relaxation,
Learning and Self-Esteem for Children by Jeffrey S. Allen,
Roger J. Klein - This book for families teaches how to use
visualization and breathing techniques to overcome difficult
situations.
Don’t Pop Your Cork on Mondays: The Children’s Anti-Stress Book
by Adolph J. Moser, Dav Pilkey (Illustrator) - This book written
for kids (ages 9-12) talks about the causes and effects of stress
and offers practical approaches and techniques for dealing with
stress in daily life.
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